Sweet and sad feelings are mere situations of the self. Sweet moments are as swift as they surface, they rarely last long; while sadness tend to stick in the mind for long. But there is nothing that cannot be worked on, or walked out from. Some situations may seem permanent, but that depends on what you are doing about it. If you really want someone or something to go away from your life, you must make them go away. Don’t wait and wail, when you can simply walk away. You have the power to protect yourself.

Crying is cleansing. Cry if you feel like crying, for that’s the only way to stay calm. After crying, one tends to feel lighter from the heavy burdens of sorrow. Yes, it’s alright to bother about the things that bothers you, but only worries don’t make things to work. First, you have to work on yourself. You have to try, before you say that you’re tired. If you don’t master and control your emotions, they will mess you up. Learn to smile amidst all situations, for smile over sorrow is far way better that settling in sadness.

“Tempora mutantur et nos mutamur in illis – Times change when we change in them”. There’s no need running away from sorrows, when you have the power to be happy. No matter how strong the wind blows, a strong mind can withstand all the blows. Beloved, keep your head up high, and rise up to the light in the sky, for you’re also a star. Stand up and fight. Fight to be free from stress and sorrow. Yes, problems may arise, but you have the power to rise above them. Halt your worries, and your worries won’t hurt you.

“Quid quid initium habet finem habet – Whatever has a beginning must have end”. While you are busy worrying, that’s when wonders are busy happening. Get up and never give up. Don’t let yourself down in stress, unless you want to lie down and rest. Sorrows will make you sick, but smiles are good medicines that are self-medicated. Thus, why not smile over sorrow? At least, you owe yourself happiness; and it is free. You gain nothing dwelling in sorrow, for sorrow multiplies itself. Beloved, be happy.

The best way out of a bad situation, is to make good of that situation. Yes, it has happened, but whatever you do with it, is the next thing that will happen. You are not the only one in pain, and pain itself is temporary. Behind the veil of many smiling faces, are hearts that bleed in silence. Make merry-go-round, for nothing can stop mourning for coming around. It is what it is. Everyone falls down once in a while, but the strong get up as fast they fell. Nonetheless, keep swimming and resist sinking in sea of sorrow.

You must decide to be happy before you can be happy. Nobody and nothing can make you happy if you don’t want to be happy. Yet, people and things can make you sad, even if you don’t want to be sad. Meanwhile, if you don’t rise to your feet, you risk staying under the feet of others. It is best you draw lines between positivity and negativity. Never let negative people to influence your life, for they are only happy when you are sad.  Stay true to yourself and mingle with positive minds, for they are sad when you’re not happy. True friends don’t rest when their friend is stressed; they must react, if you are not relaxed. Don’t die in silence; reach out to people that love you, and speak up.

Dearly Beloved, live in light and love. You can never dare the devil in darkness, unless you step into the light. If you ever want to rise above hate, you must rise with love. Eschew double standards from your life, if you want to live by good standards. The energy you give is the energy you receive, but glitches are bound to occur sometimes. Never hesitate to expel from your life, anyone who makes you to feel less powerful. There are the good ones, and there are the bad ones; but it is up to you to sort them out. Talks about family and friends are normal talks; for they are few when times are hard. Only you can love yourself as you want. Live to never forget, and love to never regret.

EMEKA CHIBUIKEM V✍️✨

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